Compromises

Compromises

Compromise from yourself or compromising for others, compromises for life or compromising for fear.

 What actually is compromising??

Basically accepting ‘less than you want' is compromising. Does the term ‘want’ actually needed in life or is it created? When you are living a life you compromise many things like your choice, your career, your friends, your food, your dress, and many more. Some regret and some really don’t. So the point is does compromising required or is suppressing and leading to tolerance?

Ego in the personality overpowers compromises of others and lead to tolerancy. Kindness in personality respects compromises and lead to better living. When it comes to your life, the question arises when to really compromise? When your compromises doesn’t lead to tolerancy is the right limitation of compromising. If you start tolerating your compromises starts suppressing you. A day will come when the feeling of end will be before you. Surrounding you from depression and frustrating you for your decisions, that feeling will make your life hell. Bearing the pain of life, suppressing your feelings, ignoring your choices, start to hate what you loved, all will be the result of same.

But if your compromises are leading to your and your loved ones happiness, here is where your compromising is beneficial. But the fact is comprise with your situation but not with your own happiness. If you compromise your happiness then that again will lead to tolerancy. Compromise with your ego, compromise your anger, compromise your fear but do not compromise your happiness, do not compromise your loved ones, and do not compromise your future. Do not expect other to compromise for you or this expectation will hurt you badly. This can lead to negativity and negativity will lead to ruining of the entire future.

Difficulties in raising voice is the biggest factor that is leading to the tolerancy. Not taking steps against the wrong happenings leads to tolerancy. Stepping back from truth leads to tolerancy. Then what to do? Raise your voice, take your stand, have courage to say ‘No’, have courage to say wrong to what is wrong and say right to what is right. Here compromises play vital role. If you do not step ahead in such case then you are compromising for wrong. You will be compromising for something you should not. You are not just compromising for yourself, you are compromising yourself for promoting bad deeds.

Understand the reason deeply for which you will be taking a vast decision of compromising for. Analyze it wisely whether your sacrifice is worth or is waste. Courage and believing in yourself will help to deal you with the factor called tolerance which is the outcome of wrong compromises.

To be a right person you need to understand the rights and wrongs around you. Accordingly you need to take decision and accordingly you need to act upon. Stay stiff and strong, have courage, believe in yourself and just say ‘I won’t compromise myself for anything’. Always be you and let others accept you as you are. This will make you stronger day by day and a day will come when you be the personality others will be willing to become.